Your wedding should be a reflection of who you are as a couple; a true look into your love, your lives, and the magical things you wish to share. From the ceremony setting to the smallest decorative detail, a truly memorable day comes down to the moments and features that feel personal to you. Whether it’s in the vows you write, the menu you curate, or the music that fills the evening, these thoughtful touches are what turn a beautiful wedding into something entirely your own.
At Virginia Park Lodge, we believe in weddings that feel intimate, authentic, and entirely bespoke. With every couple who walks through our doors, we seek to understand their story and ensure the day reflects it. As always, the planning process is something unique to everyone, and to assist you as you begin, we’ll share a few ways to begin weaving your personality and shared history into your wedding.
Start with Your Story
Every couple has a unique story, and your wedding is the most special occasion to share it. Think about how you met, the experiences that you feel have shaped your relationship, and the traditions or values that matter to you both the most. Perhaps you were friends for years and wish to tell your guests the magic of your slow burn romance. Perhaps you both come from two different faiths and have decided to merge your beliefs as you embark on this next chapter together. These can all serve as inspiration for personal touches throughout your celebration.
Consider weaving your narrative into the ceremony with bespoke vows, a meaningful reading, or a symbolic ritual drawn from your cultural heritage. From the music you walk down the aisle to, to the toasts shared later in the evening, these elements help to create a day that speaks directly to who you are as a couple, not just to your guests.
Tailor the Venue to Your Vision
Your venue is the centre of the style of your wedding. Whether outdoors beneath a canopy of trees or inside a traditional church, where you exchange your vows is one of the most special places of the entire day. At Virginia Park Lodge, we offer a refined and versatile backdrop for any wedding style, allowing our couples to make the space entirely their own. Whether you're envisioning a romantic garden ceremony, a lakeside exchange of vows, or a candlelit dinner in one of our elegant interiors, the Lodge’s array of indoor and outdoor settings ensures your day feels entirely personal and beautifully cohesive.
From floral arrangements and table settings to lighting and linens, each styling choice can be thoughtfully curated to reflect your individual taste. With exclusive private hire available, couples are invited to transform the entire estate into a celebration that feels unmistakably theirs.
Personalised Menus and Drinks
One of the most meaningful ways to personalise your wedding is through the food and drink you serve. At Virginia Park Lodge, we invite our couples to collaborate with our culinary team, led by renowned chef Richard Corrigan, to design a menu that reflects their tastes, story, and the season. This alone is an incredibly thoughtful touch, as Chef Corrigan himself tied the knot in Virginia Park Lodge before later purchasing the estate and opening it up to future couples.
Whether you wish to incorporate family recipes, favourite dishes from your travels, or showcase dishes sourced from ingredients grown right here in our kitchen garden, each plate at Virginia Park Loge tells a remarkable story. You can also elevate the experience with bespoke touches like signature cocktails, drinks inspired by your heritage, or even a nod to your first date. It’s these thoughtful details that make the celebration feel entirely your own.
Unique Entertainment & Experiences
True personalisation isn’t limited to décor and dining; it extends to the experiences you create for your guests. Whether it's a live band playing your favourite genre, a traditional Irish music session to honour your roots, or a surprise performance that reflects your shared interests, entertainment can be one of the most memorable parts of the day for everyone.
At Virginia Park Lodge, the setting allows for a range of unique experiences. We can accommodate all sorts of bespoke requests, including lawn games on a summer afternoon, or a cosy fireside drinks reception in winter, as well as live music, mini golf and much more. These personal touches ensure your celebration is truly one-of-a-kind.
Memorable Keepsakes and Favours
Personalised favours and keepsakes allow guests to take a little piece of your day home with them. Whether it’s a thoughtful token that reflects you as a couple, a locally inspired treat, or something handmade, these small gestures can leave a lasting impression and tell your guests a lot more about you as a pair. For couples who like to read, perhaps a book chosen for each guest in attendance. For couples who love their garden, perhaps a wild flower bomb for guests to spread in their own gardens. Or for those who like to cook, a recipe dear to the couple’s hearts, shared amongst those they hold most dear. Whatever you go for, these are the ways to add your unique signature to the day in unexpected ways.
At Virginia Park Lodge, couples often incorporate keepsakes that nod to the estate’s heritage or the surrounding natural beauty, from pressed wildflowers gathered onsite to elegant, locally crafted mementoes. These details not only delight your guests but also deepen the connection between your story and the setting.
Choosing the Right Venue
The right venue provides so much more than just a backdrop; it becomes the canvas upon which your personal vision is brought to life. At Virginia Park Lodge, we understand that every couple’s story is different, and we pride ourselves on offering the support and flexibility needed to reflect that. From your first visit to the final toast, our experienced team is here to guide you through a seamless and thoughtful planning process that is completely bespoke to you.
With a variety of elegant event spaces both indoors and out, couples can curate a wedding day that flows naturally and feels entirely their own. Whether you're envisioning an intimate lakeside ceremony, a candlelit dinner in the pavilion, or a relaxed garden reception, each moment is enhanced by seasonal menus crafted with produce from Richard Corrigan’s own kitchen gardens. On-site accommodation allows guests to fully immerse themselves in the experience, rounding off a wedding that feels both effortlessly magical and entirely unforgettable.